Wednesday, November 28, 2012
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Tuesday, November 27, 2012
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kilometer 40 000 akan banyak mengambil duit anda seperti servis yang maha. disini saya lampirkan resit servis yang mana belum dimasukkan total jumlah kerana bateri rm300 belum di key in kan lagi, bateri kereta tersebut turut sama tak dapat digunakan kerana mengalami masalah kosong atau empty energy.
Assalamualaikum. PEKA telah menganjurkan kursus Lencana Keris Gangsa baru-baru ini. Kursus berkenaan telah diadakan pada 26 Mac bersamaan hari Sabtu di sekolah ini. Tujuan pelaksanaan kursus seumpama ini ialah untuk mendedahkan ilmu kepengakapan kepada PKK, selain menganugerahi lencana Keris Gangsa yang merupakan lencana wajib bagi PKK. Seramai 35 orang PKK telah menyertai kursus sehari ini. Kursus ini dikendalikan oleh En Subri, dibantu oleh En Ronie selaku penolong pemimpin dan 3 orang AJK kursus lain iaitu Norashikin, Khairunnisa dan Anis Syazana dari tahun 6. PEKA mengucapkan syabas kepada penganjur dan peserta yang Berjaya mengadakan kursus seperti ini.
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Monday, November 5, 2012
Relationships and Cheating – What is Cheating? Print Email Relationships and cheating are two complex terms that inevitably unite at some point in our lives. The temptation of cheating enters every single relationship, in the form of an invitation or a doubt, and there’s nothing anyone can do about it. So what is cheating then, really? Click here to read the introduction on cheating in a relationship. Have you ever understood the bond that relationships and cheating hold with each other? As we’ve seen in the introduction, the more we’re aware, the more we tend to cheat. So what is cheating then? Is it wrong to flirt with someone else when you’re in a relationship? Of course, everyone *knows* flirting with someone else is cheating. Acknowledging this as the truth only makes you a liar and a cheat, because all of us flirt, whether in front of our partner or behind their back. The French author Leon Paul Blouet once wrote that flirtation was ‘attention without intention’. Whether you agree or not, we are all flirts in our own way. The only difference is that men do it obviously, and women are more subtle. You’re only cheating if you actually follow up on your sexual innuendos. Flirting can destroy trust, but whether you agree or not, everyone is a flirt. Flirting, relationships and cheating Flirtation is used today in most scenarios, to persuade a cab driver to take you somewhere out of their reach, to win over business deals, to persuade someone to employ you, to get a nickel off your overcharged fare, and what not! The problem with flirting is that an individual does not always know when they are doing it. You could be talking to someone for one minute. And the next thing you know, you’re touching each other like a petting zoo. [Read: How to flirt by touching] But let’s be realistic here. If there is a slight intention in the flirtation, then that is a different story, and anything but acting on it with the intention of having sex should not be taken seriously. Flirting is fun, and an essential and universal part of human interaction. Everyone indulges in it, whether it’s in front of a partner or behind their back. Our achievements in everything we do are merely side-effects of the essential ability to charm and impress others with our own abilities. An exchange of admiring glances or a bit of light-hearted flirtatious banter can brighten the day, raise self esteem, and strengthen social bonds. So before you throw a tantrum and ask your partner to stop flirting with others, ask yourself about your own flirting abilities and look beyond this age-old dilemma of cheating. Flirting and text messages Relationships and cheating have come really close ever since text messages came into our lives. Normally, this starts as cheap fun in an office atmosphere, but again, if it’s not acted upon, why are we getting ourselves worked up over words? Haven’t you ever texted a friend back and forth and found yourself flirting? But you know you weren’t cheating on your lover, right? So what is cheating then? Is it cheating if your partner does the same thing? Everybody knows that a text is just a text, and nothing else. When you start reading between the lines, you’d not only confuse yourself more, but you’re probably damaging a relationship over nothing. This is where trust comes into play. If you’ve found your partner texting fascinating messages to someone else, then don’t assume it’s cheating. In fact, you should ask what it is they were doing and clear it up. The worst case scenario could be assuming something without knowing all the information. What could be assumed as cheating could easily be harmless fun, though it’s difficult to see your partner flirting as an amusement. The course of true love never did run smooth. And remember, actions speak louder than texted words. If it bothers you, and you think that’s cheating, talk to your partner about it. [Quiz: Would you be unfaithful?] Cheating with a glass of wine A drunk encounter at a party with an ex-lover or a colleague at work can at times end up with both of you kissing each other. Or worse, the moment may just feel right and even before you know it, you may find yourself in someone else’s bed. So did you just cheat on your partner? Quite frankly, you just did. But then again, as painful as it can feel, it was an accident. So again, what is cheating? Is kissing someone else cheating? The ultimate betrayal (apart from sleeping with someone else) is cheating via ‘the kiss.’ Yes, you’re not kissing the person you should be kissing, but you’re not exactly shagging them either. What would be worse, you finding out that your partner kissed someone else, or you finding your partner sleeping with someone else? It may be a mistake that you come to regret, but of those of us who are victims of this scenario, don’t let a kiss kill your relationship. You may feel insecure at first because you feel as though this should never have happened, but in reality, shit happens, heck, so do a lot of other things. You feel disgusted, victimized, unworthy and unloved, but don’t let yourself feel as though you’ve just experienced a scenario out of Carrie’s pages! Life doesn’t imitate sitcoms, so don’t let yourself be fooled. Of course, the feeling of guilty conscience comes into play and may cause a situation whereby the victim finds it hard to regain the trust. In life, we face many drawbacks, and in relationships we face them more because of the level of emotions involved. I’m not condoning everything, but neither do I condemn it. But, to endure yourself in misery, it depends on how you can get over it. Getting over an unfaithful incident What’s happened cannot be undone. Instead, you could take your own fate and decide to commit the exact same act upon your partner. But why? To feel that justice will be served? Hardly. If anything, trying to regain any kind of justice in a relationship isn’t possible. That doesn’t exist. Justice is not served from relationships, love is, and to truly love is a test of one’s ability to move on. Just remember as Gandhi once said, ‘an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind’. [Read: Getting back with an ex for sex] If you don’t want to feel miserable endlessly, you will have to try and forgive, forget or move out of it. There are far worse things in life that can happen to you, ones that are more worthy of your sorrow. The life and love we create is the life and love we live. If you face the situations that cheating seems to be defined as, it’s the belief in yourself and the way you think that will get you over this situation. Ask yourself what is cheating, and define your boundary of faithfulness. Too many relationships fail because the boundaries are not set at the beginning. But even if they are set, we get drawn into what is considered cheating by those that define it around us. We set boundaries based on what we see in the movies or in our friends’ lives. It is only up to you to know what is worth the value and what isn’t. Perhaps, I’m an optimist, or even an idealist. But we only live once in this lifetime and to let your eyes believe you’re being cheated makes you blinder to the bigger picture. In life, we all make mistakes and we all learn from them. But in love, when we make mistakes we don’t allow ourselves to learn because we are restricted by whatever boundaries are conceived upon us. Today, the temptation to cheat and even the opportunities to cheat have increased ten fold. Opposite sexes spend days and nights together over work or while socializing, and it takes a small oversight to make a huge mistake. We don’t live in a fairy tale romance where there’s just one good damsel and one prince charming. We’re surrounded by lovely fairy tale people all the time. So here we go again, what is cheating, really? [Read: Dating facts] Define your own boundaries in a relationship, and you’ll be a lot happier in love. Cheating and relationships go hand in hand, but that’s only if you define it by the rules of old romantic novels. So what is cheating again? Make your own rules and let us know what they are!
31th October 2012 - Wednesday Ref: En. Izwan Sulaiman / En. Mohd Sek Keb Kuala Atok Raub, Pahang Darul Makmur Tel : 013 – 942 8611 / 013 – 932 1464 Fax : 09 – 310 1220 Email : firstname.lastname@example.org email@example.com firstname.lastname@example.org Dear En. Izwan Sulaiman / En. Mohd, QUOTATION LETTER Greetings from Berjaya Hills Golf & Country Club Sales Office! Thank you for your interest shown towards our Resort. We are pleased to extend the following for your kind attention: Date Function : 4th November 2012 Number of Person : 45 Adult, 20 Child ** PLEASE BE INFORMED THAT NO RESERVATION FOR ROOM ACCOMODATIONS & MEETING HALL HAS BEEN MADE AT THIS STAGE. ** Rooming List must be provided 2 weeks prior to group arrival. In the event, no rooming list is provided 3 WORKING DAYS prior to group arrival, a dummy list would be created for all rooms. The Main Organizer will need to collect the room keys from the Reception Counter during check-in. Any inconvenience caused will not be the liability of the Resort. 1. ACCOMMODATION PACKAGES I) Berjaya Hills Golf & Country Club – Berjaya Hills Resort ROOMS TYPE OF ACTUAL DAY USE AVAILABLE BEDS PRICE PRICE GOLFERS CHALET 00 Units TWIN RM 230.00 RM 94.00 GOLFERS CHALET 00 Units KING RM 230.00 RM 94.00 DELUXE SUITE 00 Units TWIN RM 348.00 RM128.00 DELUXE SUITE 00 Units KING RM 348.00 RM128.00 PRIMER SUITE 02 Units KING RM 522.00 RM189.00 The above rates are inclusive of: • 1 night Stay (Twin Sharing Basis or Single Occupied). Remarks: The above room is subject to availability. Check in after 3 pm, Check Out before 12 noon otherwise we will charge you day use charges. Kindly provide the complete rooming list 7 day prior to the arrival of the group for pre–registration to ensure speedy check in. Extra Bed RM 70.00 nett per bed per night inclusive of Set / Buffet Breakfast Page 2/6 – 14th October 2012 - Sunday Quotation – Berjaya Hills Golf & Country Club Sek Keb Kuala Atok 1. ACTIVITIES PACKAGES Berjaya Hills Golf & Country Club – Berjaya Hills Resort ACTUAL PRICE OFFER PRICE i) ACTIVITY PACKAGE RM 62.00 RM 60.00 Adult (Nett per person) RM 38.50 RM 36.50 Child The above rates are inclusive of: 01 Time Set / Buffet Dinner. 02 Frame Bowling. 01 Pair of Shoe. ii) ACTIVITY PACKAGE RM 92.00 RM 76.80 Adult (Nett per person) RM 52.70 RM 45.00 Child The above rates are inclusive of: 01 Time Set / Buffet BBQ Dinner. 02 Frame Bowling. 01 Pair of Shoe. iii) ADDITIONAL MEAL CHARGE (Nett per person) SET / BUFFET DINNER RM 47.00 Adult RM 23.50 Child SET / BUFFET BBQ DINNER RM 63.80 Adult RM 32.00 Child Remarks: Please be informed that charges for children between 4 – 12 years old. For a buffet price & private venue request, a minimum of 30 persons is required. Please take note that the meals and venues arrangement is subject to change. 3. OPTIONAL ACTIVITIES & INFORMATION a) BOWLING Monday – Friday - RM 6.00 Nett per person per game Saturday, Sunday & Public Holidays - RM 7.00 Nett per person per game *Shoe rental at RM 1.00 Nett per pair 4. ADVENCER PARK PACKAGE ACTUAL PRICE OFFER NETT PRICE i) FLYING FOX RM 78.00 RM 70.00 (Nett per person) The above rates are inclusive of: Equipped with safety harness, safety strap and Helmet Minimum Above than 10 persons. ii) CANOPY WALK RM 30.00 RM 25.00 (Nett per person) The above rates are inclusive of: Safety Helmet. Minimum Above than 10 persons. Page 3/6 – 14th October 2012 - Sunday Quotation – Berjaya Hills Golf & Country Club Sek Men Keb Setia Wangsa iii) ROCK CLIMBING RM 38.00 RM 32.00 (Nett per person) The above rates are inclusive of: Equipped with safety harness, safety strap and Helmet. Minimum Above than 10 persons. 5. Package at Berjaya Hills Resort a. HORSE TRAIL RIDES 10 minutes horse ride - RM 20.00 Nett per person ( lead by staff ) 2 hour ride - RM 200.00 Nett per person ( minimum 2 persons ) 3 hour ride - RM 270.00 Nett per person ( minimum 4 persons ) ½ day ride with picnic lunch - RM 340.00 Nett per person ( minimum 6 persons ) 1 day ride with picnic lunch - RM 620.00 Nett per person ( minimum 6 persons ) b. RIDING LESSONS ½ hour ride - RM 70.00 Nett per person 1 hour ride - RM 110.00 Nett per person ** Riders above 80Kg will be subject to additional charges ** The Horse Trail is closed on every Tuesday c. TELEMATCH – Consist of 5 Games (Inclusive of 5 games, Instructor, Games Equipment & Drinking Water) Minimum of 20 persons - RM 400.00 Nett per group Additional person at - RM 20.00 Nett per person (Adult) - RM 15.00 Nett per person (Child) d. INDOOR SPORTS ACTIVITIES Badminton - RM 10.00 Nett per court per hour Table Tennis - RM 10.00 Nett per court per hour Squash - RM 10.00 Nett per court per hour Snooker - RM 15.00 Nett per table per hour ** The above rental is excluding use of the rackets, shuttlecocks & balls. These items can be rented from the Sports Complex. e. OUTDOOR TEAMBUILDING (i) Bukit Tinggi Explorace (3 -4 hours) (Inclusive of drinking water) Brief of Activity : Participants will explore around 8 km to complete 6 intresting check points around Berjaya Hills Minimum of 20 persons - RM 1,000.00 Nett per group. Additional person at - RM 50.00 Nett per persons. Page 4/6 – 14th October 2012 - Sunday Quotation – Berjaya Hills Golf & Country Club Sek Men Keb Setia Wangsa (ii) Treasure Hunt at Colmar Tropicale ( Duration : 1.5 hours ) (Inclusive of printed materials& pencils, drinking water) Brief of Activity : Tricky, challenging and demanding flexible thought process ability to see beyond the obvious. Consist of 16 questions for participants to solved. Minimum of 20 persons - RM 300.00 Nett per group. Additional person at - RM 15.00 Nett per persons. (iii) Low Ropes Course at Japanese Village ( Duration : 2.5 hours ) (Inclusive of drinking water) Brief of Activity : Given 5 elements for participants to complete. Mainly on balancing & team’s effort Minimum of 12 persons - RM 480.00 Nett per group. Additional person at - RM 40.00 Nett per persons. Brief of Activity : Group will move in single file guarded with guide front and back without using torchlight. They have to hold hand by hand or shoulder to shoulder and describe the condition of track that they have to go through and passed that message to the next person behind. Minimum of 10 persons - RM 200.00 Nett per group. Additional person at - RM 20.00 Nett per persons. f. PAINTBALL PACKAGE RATES (minimum 10 pax , maximum 35 pax) Jungle Game : RM 90.00 Nett per pax The above price inclusive of:- Full Face Protective Mask Paintball Gear and Gun Team Color Arm Band 50 Rounds of Paintball Pallets per person Game and Safety Instructions Use of one (1) Speed Ball Field Chest & Throat Protector ADDITIONAL RENTAL CHARGES Throat Protector : RM 2.00 Nett per pax Chest Protector : RM 10.00 Nett per pax Uniform (Top) : RM 8.00 Nett per pax Uniform (Bottom) : RM 8.00 Nett per pax ** CURRENTLY SPEEDBALL & VIETNAMESE PAINTBALL IS CLOSED UNTIL FURTHER NOTICED. ONLY JUNGLE PAINTBALL AVAILABLE AT THIS PERIOD ** Page 5/6 – 14th October 2012 - Sunday Quotation – Berjaya Hills Golf & Country Club Sek Men Keb Setia Wangsa g. KARAOKE ARRANGEMENT WEEKDAY WEEKEND/ PUBLIC HOLIDAYS PRIVATE KARAOKE ROOM RM 116.00 RM 139.20 (Nett per room) The above rates are inclusive of: 8 cans of soft drink. Karaoke for 2 hours. Minimum capacity 8 persons. i) PRIVATE KARAOKE ROOM RM 58.00 RM 69.60 (Nett per room) The above rates are inclusive of: 4 cans of soft drink. Karaoke for 2 hours. Minimum capacity 4 persons. h. ENTERTAINMENT Scheduled Dance Performance is available at the Colmar Stage Area daily. ( timing & availability is subject to change without prior notice ) i. TATAMI SPA PROGRAMME Kiso ( Basic – Foot Spa & Massage ) RM 320.00++ for 1 ½ hour Sabuko na ( Simplicity – Foot Bath, Body Scrub, Massage ) RM 440.00++ for 2 hours Amayakashi ( Pamper – Foot Spa, Onsen, Massage ) RM 440.00++ for 2 hours Kimochi ii ( Sensation – Foot Bath, Body Scrub, Body Wrap, Massage ) RM 640.00++ for 3 hours Kyukyoku ( Ultimate – Body Scrub, Body Wrap, Onsen, Massage ) RM 720.00++ for 4 hour ** For Kyukyoku, Zensai ( Light Meal ) is provided as well. 6. CHECK-IN AND CHECK-OUT TIME Our check-in time is 1500 hours and check-out time is 1200 hours. For late check out until 06:00PM, an additional charge will apply. Kindly provide the complete Rooming List 14 days prior to the arrival of the group for pre-registration to ensure speedy check in. 7. CANCELLATION POLICY Our cancellation policies are as follows:- 30 Days prior to arrival : 30% of the total package charges 14 Days prior to arrival : No refund will be made. Page 6/6 – 14th October 2012 - Sunday Quotation – Berjaya Hills Golf & Country Club Sek Men Keb Setia Wangsa 8. TERMS & CONDITIONS Rates are applicable for a minimum group size of 15 paying rooms. All rates quoted are subject to 10% service charge and 6% government tax where applicable and non-commissionable. Rates quoted are only valid for stipulated events / travelling dates. Change of events / travelling dates may subject to new rates. Any changes to the event must be informed to our Sales Person 3 days before the event date. No changes will be entertained 48 hours before event date & all details given are deemed as guaranteed bookings. 9. WASH DOWN POLICY Our wash down policies are as follows:- 30 days to arrival : 10% of the total rooms blocked can be released without charges 14 days prior to arrival : All room bookings reserved would be charged accordingly. 10. DEPOSIT / PAYMENT Upon confirmation of reservation, the resort requires a 50% deposit to be paid within 7 days in order to secure room reservations and Balance payment To be paid 5 days before arrival (Function date) Berjaya Hills Golf & Country Club Payment to : Berjaya Hills Berhad Bank : Malayan Banking Berhad Acct No : 0061 3700 3734 Bank’s Address : 117—118, Jalan Loke Yew 28700 Bentong PAHANG DARUL MAKMUR Kindly be advised that the above are merely quotations for this event. As such, NO RESERVATION has been made as yet. This quotation is only valid for a period of 7 days from the date of issue. Should you require further information, kindly contact me at 09 222 8882 ext 7076 or else we shall be contacting you within the next few days to further discuss on how we can rework this quotation to meet your needs. Thank you. Best regards, BERJAYA HILLS BERHAD Fatin Syazwani Mohd Hamizan Lajin Banquet Sales Coordinator Asst. Sales Manager
KUALA LUMPUR: The Malaysian Trades Union Congress (MTUC) on Monday called on the government to be firm about implementing the RM900 monthly minimum wage plan as scheduled on Jan 1, next year. Its president, Khalid Atan told Bernama that this was because employers had been given ample time and should be ready to put the plan into action by now. Khalid was responding to Small-Medium Industries (SMI) Association of Malaysia president, Teh Kee Sin who wanted the government to review the plan and not to rush its implementation. He said employers had no valid reason to delay the implementation as workers had waited almost 12 years for the plan to materialise. "In fact, MTUC would like the minimum wage to be raised to RM1,200 based on the rising cost of living, especially in urban areas." He explained that the RM900 was proposed by MTUC way back in 1999 and there was no response from the government then. "Actually, the employers should be happy that the workers are not pushing for a raise and have stuck to their old demand," Khalid said. Meanwhile, the Malaysian Employers Federation (MEF) said most of their members were ready for the implementation. "However, it would be better if the government could give small firms a deferment as they need more time to adjust to the new pay scheme," said its executive director, Shamsuddin Bardan. He said that about 4,500 such firms had applied to the National Wage Council (NWC) to consider their plight. The NWC is a tripartite body consisting of government, employers and employees' representatives and is tasked with making recommendations on the wages for the various industries in the private sector. Bernama understands that the NWC, which is scheduled to meet sometime later this month, will look into the applications based on merit. - Bernama
KUALA LUMPUR: The Education Ministry has no intention of setting up a centralised data bank of degree holders to address the problem of fake degrees, the Dewan Rakyat was told Monday. Its deputy minister, Datuk Saifuddin Abdullah said this was because each public or private institution of higher learning (IPT) had its own databank of degree holders. "This is consistent with the autonomy and freedom granted to IPTs in conducting their operations," he said when responding to a question from Datuk Mohd Nasir Ibrahim Fikri (BN-Kuala Nerus). Saifuddin said that, currently, the ministry received data from public IPTs through an information and database system called MyMohes while that of private IPTs via the IPT Information Management System (IFMS). "The systems ensures that the data and information provided are accurate, current, authentic and can be used for planning, promulgating policies and developing sustainable higher education," he said. Existing laws are sufficient to weed out degree scam, he said, adding that employers wanting to know the authenticity of local degrees should check with the IPT concerned. - Bernama
Want to impress your date within the first few minutes of meeting them? Use these 20 perfect first date conversation tips to do just that and more! By Jessica Dawson What makes a conversation pleasant? And what makes it a bore? When it comes to first dates, there’s nothing that can impress your date better than the first few minutes of charming conversation. The perfect first date conversation starters can make or break your first date, and more often than not, you may not even realize it. [Read: 14 signs you’re ruining your first date without even realizing it!] How to perfect your first date conversation A first date helps you judge the person you’re meeting, and evaluate them as a dating potential over the long term. There are a few people who always find it very easy to impress all their dates, all the time. On the other hand, there are a few other people who always seem to fail miserably at making a great first impression no matter how hard they try. Ever wondered what it takes to impress someone within the first few minutes? [Read: The perfect things to talk about within the first few minutes of the date] 20 first date conversation tips to charm your date Impressing a date takes more than just words. The way you behave and treat the person you’re with on a date can play a big part too. Use these 20 ways to better your conversation and you’ll definitely leave your date feeling warm and happy. #1 Start the date well. Pick a date spot that both of you would like, and make sure you arrive on time. Be warm and courteous while talking, and make sure you address your date by their name a few times within the first ten minutes to make the date feel more personal. [Read: 15 things you definitely need to do on a date to make it perfect] #2 Smile. Smiling is a great way to cut the awkwardness of the first date. Smile often, and your date will feel more relaxed and comfortable around you immediately. #3 Like your date. If you’re eager to meet you date or are excited to see them, make sure it shows. Feel positive about the date, and the person you’re meeting will feel positive around you too. Remember, positive energy always attracts positive energy. #4 Remember your manners. Treat your date with respect and remember to be courteous and kind during the date. It’s completely acceptable to goof up or slip up once in a while, just as long as you shrug the accident off with a laugh instead of appearing nervous or awkward. In fact, a silly slip up can actually make the evening more fun and memorable. [Read: 12 important dating rules for classy men and women] #5 Things to talk about. During the first conversation, avoid asking about their past relationships or their future plans. Both of you aren’t dating yet, so asking questions that are too personal too early into the date can make you appear nosy or intrusive. Ask the right questions though, and your date will open up to you and may even fall for you before the end of the date. [Read: 40 perfect first date questions to warm your date up] #6 Flatter in moderation. Be generous with your compliments. When you appreciate the effort your date took to dress up and look good for you, they’d warm up better towards you. But always learn to be genuine about compliments, without going overboard or overly personal. #7 Positive words. Be positive when you meet your date and use positive words during the date. Look around the restaurant and tell your date what you like about the place, or tell your date how glad you are to spend time with them. When you see the positive side in everything around you, your optimism will make you seem more attractive. #8 Common grounds. While conversing with your date, try to find something both of you like or dislike within the first fifteen minutes. Bitch about something both of you hate, or talk excitedly about something both of you love. Finding the passionate common ground will help both of you realize just how common both your likes and dislikes are. [Read: 15 obvious flirting signs between a guy and a girl] #9 Touch appropriately. Place your hand on the table and lean towards your date almost all throughout the date. It’s a subtle sign that you’re trying to come closer to them. If your date likes you back, they too may lean forward while talking to you. Unless your date leans in or tries to get closer to you, avoid reaching out and touching them unnecessarily. But if your date does lean in towards you now and then, place your palm on their palm occasionally while trying to emphasize a point. It’s the perfect way to start the game of touchy flirting. [Read: The subtle art of discreetly flirting by touch] #10 Eye contact. If you’re having a great time with your date, you can’t help but open your eyes wide with excitement. While speaking with your date, hold a strong gaze and nod casually when they say something. It shows that you’re completely focused on them, and aren’t distracted during the date. #11 Body language. Be aware of your body when you’re sitting across the table or next to your date. Don’t fidget or rock your body forward and backward, and don’t nod your head forever like you’ve got a spring for your neck. Sit back comfortably and move gracefully, be it while stepping away from the table or while reaching across the table. [Read: 10 ways to be more graceful and elegant on a date] #12 Be decisive. Indecisiveness is a definite turn off for everyone. It may be cute now and then, but on a first date, taking too long to order food, deciding the wine, or contemplating aloud about what to order for several minutes is a definite sign of annoyance. [Read: Top 10 biggest turn offs for all girls on a date] #13 Speak clearly. A woman’s voice is naturally higher pitched than a man’s, but irrespective of the gender, don’t be loud or brash. Speak softly and clearly in a relaxed manner without mumbling. The softer you speak, the calmer and more relaxed your date will feel. And a pleasantly soft voice will make you appear romantic and caring too. #14 Watch the reactions. Keep an eye on your date’s behavior. You may assume you’re having an interesting conversation but your date may feel otherwise. If your date seems to be looking around the room, shuffling their feet, staring blankly at you or in any way distracted, talk about something else, or wrap your statement up quickly and discreetly, laugh awkwardly and use the time tested line, “I’m talking too much… why don’t you tell me something…?” #15 Gesticulate. Gestures are a great way to show your excitement in a conversation. And they also subtly draw the person you’re having a conversation with right into the conversation. Just avoid being overly dramatic while swaying your hands around though, and restrict your hand movements to within half a feet on either side of your body during the first date. #16 Don’t hog the conversation. Don’t interrupt or speak at length about the same topic unless your date adds their point of view about the same topic frequently. Keep your sentences short, so your date gets to respond or add their own point of view often. The shorter your lines *around a minute at a stretch is good enough unless you’re telling an anecdote*, the more interactive the evening would start to feel. [Read: 20 sure signs of attraction in a first conversation] #17 Disagree respectfully. In every conversation, there are bound to be differences in opinions. If your date disagrees on something, don’t try to prove a point with a clenched fist on the table. Laugh about it, express your view lightheartedly and try to steer the conversation in another direction. And if the disagreement does last for over a minute, you’ve already taken it too far. #18 Don’t be afraid of silence. If you feel comfortable instead of feeling awkward during a quiet moment, your date will feel relaxed too. Just smile and look around, or get back to finishing your meal instead of mumbling nervously just to fill the gaps in the conversation. You need to remember that silence too is a part of the conversation. #19 Tease and be playful. A playful nature is one of the most attractive traits in a person, especially on a date. Laugh, share a funny real life experience, and don’t be afraid to laugh at yourself now and then. A good sense of humor can definitely help you impress your date during your first date conversation and make the evening more fun and interesting. [Read: How to be funny and make your date love your company] #20 End the date well. Ending the date warmly and memorably is just as important as the first few minutes of the date. As long as you end the evening in a memorable manner, you’ll leave your date thinking fondly of you. Exchange pleasantries while hugging or kissing goodbye, and tell your date how wonderful your date was, and that you’d love to see them again sometime soon. [Read: How to end a date - The good, bad and ugly way] A romantic or memorable evening isn’t created out of thin air. It’s created through the conversations you have, and the memorable moments that you create with each other. [Read: 13 physical attraction tips to make you look way hotter on your date] The next time you’re on a date with a special someone you want to impress, use these 20 first date conversation tips and you’ll be able to create an evening that’s romantic, fun and definitely memorable. We’re trying hard to create better relationships in the world. But we can’t do it without YOU! Did this feature help you better yourself or your relationship? You can change someone else’s life too!
for sure you are thimking about this.... u need bachelor party for what? do u have friend that involve in this? surely not dammm.. what for the bachelor party.. i think it make us happy, How to Find Love – The Law of Attraction Print Email If there is one big question that nags almost all singles, it’s how to find love. But can you really go looking for love, or should you just wait for the secret law of attraction in love to start working its magic? Find out how love really works. Are you wondering how to find love? Learn to understand the secret law of attraction in love, and you’ll see that knowing how to find true love can be as easy as a walk in the park. But if you really want to understand the law of attraction in love, you need to understand the system, and how it really works. The whole world is full of patterns and logical explanations, but when it comes to love and how it works, it’s surprisingly easy and yet, totally mysterious. How to find love There are many couples who have been together since forever, but even they haven’t found love in each other’s eyes. So if you’re single and feeling hopelessly lost, don’t fret. You really are not alone. [Read: Why you can't find love] You could read huge research papers or listen to therapists about their definition of love and try to learn from them. But it really won’t take you anywhere. After all, love isn’t a road map to go from one place to another. Love is like a magical recipe that changes with each person. And no therapy or study papers can help you there. There are so many couples who have actually given up on finding love, and carry on their lives talking about fairytale romances and romantic movies with their friends, but they don’t really try to find love in their own lives. [Read: Long term relationship poll] What are you looking for? If you’re trying to find love, what are you looking for? How do YOU find love? Understanding this will be the key to opening up better avenues and paths in your search for love. Try to pinpoint the type of partner that you’re looking for. What are the most important aspects that you want in your partner? Knowing how to find love is about knowing what you want in a partner. Should your prospective partner be attractive, or charming, or earning a lot of money, or overly ambitious, or all of the above? Don’t sweat over the small stuff. It’s alright for the list to be vague. Sometimes, it’s not easy to make a checklist in love, but it’s always better to create a list if you want to know how to find love. Love at first sight and passion won’t care about any lists, but checklists are always important in long term relationships. Once the passionate haze of initial love fades, reality comes into play and you’re going to wish you stuck to your list of wants in a partner. [Read: Is it love or limerence?] What is your partner looking for? Now that you know what you want in a partner, let’s look into the mirror at your own prospective partner. What would your dream partner be looking for? This can be tricky, but it’s quite logical. Let’s say you want to earn a billion dollars. Now that’s your hypothetical partner. If you were to ask the billion dollars what you should do to earn it, what do you think it would say? Of course, it’s not going to drop on your lap out of thin air. What do you think the billion dollars would say to you? Years of hard work, perseverance, dedication, blah and more blah? Are you getting where we’re going? So you have a wish list of your dream partner. Now ask yourself what your prospective partner would want from you if they have to go out with you. [Read: Dating facts] The secret law of attraction in love How to find love in a world that’s so full of people with unique desires? Truth be told, we can leave it to the secret law of attraction in love. It works, and it’s very easy. But you have to understand it. You’ve made a checklist of the things you want in a partner. And just like you, your prospective partner’s made a mental checklist of the things they want in their partner too. If both of your checklists match perfectly, it’s instant attraction. The secret law of attraction in love would set into motion a chain of reactions that will draw both of you together like moths to a warm flame! Confusions in the law of attraction in love Now this is what every single person who wants to know how to find love should understand. You can ask for the moon and you can ask for the perfect partner. But are you perfect too? A lot of people are shallow and want their partner to be the best person of the opposite sex. But then, the law of attraction in love is mutual. If you want the best partner, you have to be the best partner too. Most singles start out in their teens or twenties wanting the best partner in all aspects, and by the time they’re twenty five, they drop their expectations a wee bit. And by the time they reach their thirties, they drop all their expectations and date anyone they get. Now obviously, even if you find your partner by dropping all your expectations, you’re never going to be completely, truly happy in love. You’re always going to look at someone else, and wonder how things could have been if you could have been with your dream partner. This is one of the biggest reasons why some people start to fall out of love with their own partners after a few years into a long term relationship. How to find love with the right partner? Instead of dropping expectations in love all the time, retain them. But just like you have expectations from your partner, remember that your dream partner has expectations too. Ask yourself what your dream partner might want from you and try to become a better person yourself. [Read: How to talk to a guy and make him like you] Speak with a few friends of the opposite sex and ask them to define their ideal partner. Learn from them, and try to improve your own shortcomings. Remember, the difference between looking beautiful and ugly is a coat of thick makeup or a good workout, so don’t really bother if you think you look unattractive. Attractiveness is more about charisma, persona and attitude than anything else. You’ll learn this over time, even if you don’t believe it now! [Read: What men want in a woman] [Read: What women want in a man] Change the law of attraction in love All of us have our own desires when it comes to finding the perfect match in love. If you really want to live a blissfully happy life with your own true love, don’t drop your expectations. Instead, change the odds by improving yourself. Mould yourself to become your dream partner’s dream! By dropping your expectations in love all the time, you’ll only end up feeling let down. Instead, work hard towards becoming perfect yourself. We’ve all seen movies where drooling oversized men stare at gorgeous women who are desired by everyone. There are no laws of attraction in love there, and that’s just physical attraction we’re talking about. For the law of attraction to work, there are so many factors you have to consider. See your checklist and ask yourself if you fit into all those requirements too. And if you’re flawed somewhere, try and improve it. How to find love in the open Once you understand the real way in which the law of attraction in love works, you won’t have to wonder about how to find love. The ball will roll, and before you know it, you’ll find yourself in situations where the odds of love will be high and you’ll be bumping into perfect partners all the time. But you need to keep your eyes open too, and look out for opportunities when you’re out with friends, or at your workplace. [Read: How to get a guy to like you] [Read: How to get a girl to like you] Use your own checklist in love to make yourself a better partner and you’ll know how to find love in no time. And with the secret law of attraction in love at work, you’ll see how falling in love and meeting the perfect partner can be such a wonderful and fairytale experience.
What's Innit?: Peace Massage Bar Hello Folks! Have you used our Peace Massage Bar yet? It’s a beautiful, chocolatey scented wonder that helps bring peace to troubled emotions. The story behind this massage bar is simple and inspiring. Head Lush man Mark Constantine was deeply saddened by the 2011 riots in the U.K., and that people would stoop to such a level. He immediately took himself to the Lush Spa and thought about the Synaesthesia treatment - our Synaesthesia massage asks customers to pick a word from our wall of emotions, and we talior-make that massage to achieve that word for them. Mark picked four of the words from the wall - Forgiveness, Acceptance, Calm, and Content - as he thought these best represented feelings of Peace. These oils behind these words were combined with wonderful cocoa butters to create the Peace Massage Bar. Now, we’ve got a heavenly little massage bar to help everyone feel at ease in times of turmoil. And because that’s so special, we just couldn’t keep it for the spa treatment - and we started selling it in our stores, too! That’s all very nice, isn’t it? Now all that’s left to say is … what’s innit?: Fairtrade Organic Cocoa Butter - Cocoa Butter is derived from the Cacao Tree that grows in the hottest regions of Latin America and the Caribbean. The butter itself is the result of a long process; the trees sprout pods, which are filled with around 50 seeds. These seeds are fermented, to take away the bitterness, then they are coasted and cracked to get rid of the hard shells. Then they are ground down and put through a high pressure process to separate the butters from the powder. Our cocoa butter is provided by a co-operative in the Dominic Republic, called the Conacado Group. By sourcing our cocoa butter from here, the co-operative can help provide for the local community and improve living conditions. We use the cocoa butter here for its beautiful fragrance and skin softening properties. Organic Shea Butter - Shea Butter is a natural fat that comes from the nut of the Karite Tree. We source our Shea Butter from a co-operative in Ghana, where women do most of the process by hand. First the nuts are sorted, depending on their state - black ones are too dry, brown ones will yield the best quality butter. The nuts are then crushed and roasted to extract the butter. It is a long, difficult process and the women work very hard to get the best results possible. Shea butter quickly sinks into the skin and also aids other oils to be easily absorbed too, but without leaving the skin feeling greasy. It can protect the skin and has also been proved to aid in shielding from UVB rays. Fair Trade Olive Oil -All the olive oil we use at Lush UK and Lush Japan comes from the Sindyanna of Galilee project. Based in Israel, the co-operative unites women across the Palestinian/Isreali divide to provide economical success for the area and funding for local communities. The company is named after the Palestinian Oak tree in the region which symbolises longevity, stability, and connection to the land. We use the olive oil for its softening properties, and it also gives skin strength and protection. We also love it for the feelings of endurance and comfort that it gives to anyone who uses it. So anyone searching for peace, and wanting to put their problems to bed, could surely use this spectacularly simple massage bar. You can find it online or in store, where we’re more than happy to share a piece of our peace with you :)
1. How would you describe the perfect kiss? a) Like a firm handshake. Let them know you're not weak. b) Whatever both people want and like. c) WET. The wetter, the better! d) Passionate. e) On the back of my hand. 2. The best location for a kiss is: a) In a dark, private area with the blinds closed. b) Anywhere, if we both feel like kissing! c) At the movies. d) In a restaurant. e) On the back of my hand! 3. For a first kiss, my hands usually are: a) In my pockets. b) On my partner's face or head. c) All over the place. d) Clasped together behind me. e) Holding his/her hand. 4. A good first kiss is done: a) With tight, firm lips. b) Mouth open wide, wet, and passionate. c) As quickly as possible. d) Slowly and softly. e) On the cheek. 5. A really, really wet kiss is best: a) All the time! b) To show you really like someone. c) Good if the time is right and both partners enjoy it. d) Only from a dog! e) As a first kiss.
Are you prepared to know the truth and assess your ability to impress & satisfy your sweetheart? ...are you sure you can? ...are you capable of satisfying him? ...are you confident of making her lips your canvas of art? Before you proceed further to take the tips, take a li'l time to take this quiz and find out if you're a talented kisser, or you need some more practice! ...work accordingly!!!
He who wants to do good, knocks at the gate; he who loves, finds the gates open. Sir Rabindranath Tagore A friend is someone who knows all about you, and loves you just the same. Proverb Tell me whom you love and I will tell you who you are. Houssaye Happiness is the china shop; love is the bull. H. L. Mencken Love is, above all, the gift of oneself. Jean Anouilh Three grand essentials to happiness in this life are something to do, something to love, and something to hope for. Joseph Addison I could never love where I could not respect. Charlotte Elizabeth Aissé It is probably not love that makes the world go around, but rather those mutually supportive alliances through which partners recognize their dependence on each other for the achievement of shared and private goals. Fred Allen I was nauseous and tingly all over. . . . I was either in love or I had smallpox. Woody Allen Life is short and we have never too much time for gladdening the hearts of those who are traveling the dark journey with us. Oh, be swift to love, make haste to be kind. Henri Frédéric Amiel When we are motivated by goals that have deep meaning, by dreams that need completion, by pure love that needs expressing, then we truly live life. Greg Anderson A false enchantment can all too easily last a lifetime. W. H. Auden What does love look like? It has the hands to help others. It has the feet to hasten to the poor and needy. It has eyes to see misery and want. It has the ears to hear the sighs and sorrows of men. That is what love looks like. St. Augustine 354-430, Numidian-born Bishop of Hippo, Theologian Love, and do what you like. St. Augustine Love is the beauty of the soul. St. Augustine God loves each of us as if there were only one of us. St. Augustine What I needed most was to love and to be loved, eager to be caught. Happily I wrapped those painful bonds around me; and sure enough, I would be lashed with the red-hot pokers or jealousy, by suspicions and fear, by burst of anger and quarrels. St. Augustine Accept the things to which fate binds you, and love the people with whom fate brings you together, but do so with all your heart. Marcus Aurelius 121-80 AD, Roman Emperor, Philosopher Not all of us have to possess earthshaking talent. Just common sense and love will do. Myrtle Auvil And this I pray, that your love may abound still more and more in real knowledge and all discernment. Philippians 1:9 There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear. Bible Keep me as the apple of the eye, hide me under the shadow of thy wings. Bible A temporary insanity curable by marriage. Ambrose Bierce 1842-1914, American Author Love is made by two people, in different kinds of solitude. It can be in a crowd, but in an oblivious crowd. Louis Aragon 1897-1982, French Poet Love is, above all, the gift of oneself. Jean Anouilh Ardele Oh, love is real enough; you will find it someday, but it has one archenemy -- and that is life. Jean Anouilh Ardele Love, by its very nature, is unworldly, and it is for this reason rather than its rarity that it is not only apolitical but anti-political, perhaps the most powerful of all anti-political human forces. Hannah Arendt 1906-1975, German-born American Political Philosopher Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies. Aristotle Wicked men obey from fear; good men, from love. Aristotle In a great romance, each person plays a part the other really likes. Elizabeth Ashley American Actress We must love one another or die. W. H. Auden 1907-1973, Anglo-American Poet We are not commanded (or forbidden) to love our mates, our children, our friends, our country because such affections come naturally to us and are good in themselves, although we may corrupt them. We are commanded to love our neighbor because our ''natural'' attitude toward the ''other'' is one of either indifference or hostility. W. H. Auden 1907-1973, Anglo-American Poet Love is a great beautifier. Louisa May Alcott 1832-1888, American Author The Impossible Generalized Man today is the critic who believes in loving those unworthy of love as well as those worthy --yet believes this only insofar as no personal risk is entailed. Meaning he loves no one, worthy or no. This is what makes him impossible. Nelson Algren 1909-1981, American Author Sex alleviates tension. Love causes it. Woody Allen I was nauseous and tingly all over. I was either in love or I had smallpox. Woody Allen Women wish to be loved not because they are pretty, or good, or well bred, or graceful, or intelligent, but because they are themselves. Henri Frederic Amiel 1821-1881, Swiss Philosopher, Poet, Critic In real love you want the other person's good. In romantic love, you want the other person. Margaret Anderson The more connections you and your lover make, not just between your bodies, but between your minds, your hearts, and your souls, the more you will strengthen the fabric of your relationship, and the more real moments you will experience together. Barbara De Angelis Love's greatest gift is its ability to make everything it touches sacred. Barbara De Angelis Love is a force more formidable than any other. It is invisible -- it cannot be seen or measured, yet it is powerful enough to transform you in a moment, and offer you more joy than any material possession could. Barbara De Angelis There is love of course. And then there's life, its enemy. Jean Anouilh 1910-1987, French Playwright Well-ordered self-love is right and natural. St. Thomas Aquinas 1225-1274, Italian Scholastic Philosopher and Theologian Teach only love for that is what you are. A Course In Miracles Everyone admits that love is wonderful and necessary, yet no one agrees on just what it is. Diane Ackerman There is a law that man should love his neighbor as himself. In a few hundred years it should be as natural to mankind as breathing or the upright gait; but if he does not learn it he must perish. Alfred Adler Love - THE FEELING - is a fruit of love, the verb. Stephen R. Covey American Speaker, Trainer, Author Love is a fire. But whether it is going to warm your hearth or burn down your house, you can never tell. Joan Crawford 1904-1977, American Actress Love touched her heart, and lo! It beats high, and burns with such brave hearts. Richard Crawshaw Love is the extra effort we make in our dealings with those whom we do not like and once you understand that, you understand all. This idea that love overtakes you is nonsense. This is but a polite manifestation of sex. To love another you have to undertake some fragment of their destiny. Quentin Crisp 1908-, British Author I love you, not for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you. Roy Croft Men and women are not free to love decently until they have analyzed themselves completely and swept away every mystery from sex; and this means the acquisition of a profound philosophical theory based on wide reading of anthropology and enlightened practice. Aleister Crowley 1875-1947, British Occultist
Ever been in Love? Ever felt sweet for someone? ...or, that flame, that passion, that madness within? ...or is there any feeling in your mind, which inflicts a sense of pain, but makes your heart cherish that, as never before? Call it 'Love', for, we can bet, someone who felt any or all of these colors of mind, has somehow or the other, at one point in life, been in Love. When the digital & classical masters, poets, theologians, sociologists, heart/brain scientists, psychologists, philosophers failed to define, understand or describe that veteran, lofty, good-old topic called "Love" in their poems, fictions, theses, canvases, sculptures, or pixel-graphics, down the ages, how do we dare to try to explore that exalted theme?! But still, we would enjoy sharing with others, our thoughts, our imaginations, our perceptions and solutions... just as you, who has just visited our web site, just haulted for a while or two to go through and explore a little, our endeavour about the grandeur, glamour and glories of Love. If we can ignite the slightest, or even the dimmest flame of understanding "Love", in your heart, we would be thankful!
u ready to take your passion to a new level? These tips are sure to take just about any relationship from ho-hum to WOW! Some ideas may seem like basic romance� but let's be honest� when was the last time you ACTUALLY did them? That's right� the only way for this to work is to put the ideas into practice. Try all 10 and see what happens! Take a hot shower or bath together. When you are in the bath or shower, keep close physical contact. Wash each other and whisper in their ear the things you specifically love about making love to them. Share a romantic dinner in front of the fireplace. Nothing speaks romance like sharing a meal in front of the glow of a burning fire. It's even better if you're nude or barely covered with lace and silk. Make sure the dinner you share is conducive to a romantic setting. Food that can easily be eaten with the least amount of utensils is usually your best bet! Keep constant close physical contact when you are not at home. Keeping a sparked connection throughout the night is one of the most effective ways to keeping your partner passionate about you. A hand on their thigh, a whisper in their ear or a kiss on the neck are all great for reminding your partner what's waiting at home. A long, passionate kiss. How often do you really just express your desire in a kiss? When you first start dating it's usually one of the only ways to express your desire. Refresh your kissing skills by every so often catching your partner off-guard with a weak-in-the-knees passionate kiss. Leave a sexy note in the morning telling them to have nothing on, but the radio when you get home. They'll be thinking about it all day at work! Want to keep your partner's mind on you ALL day? Do this idea! You can even go a step further and tell them what's in store for them as well! Feed each other sensually suggestive finger foods. The best way to feed each other? Naked, of course! Set the tone for an incredible lovemaking experience with a little forethought and some of their favorite tender treats. Slow, sensual massage, complete with massage oil. If your hands slowly massaging every part of their body can't turn them on� well, you need more than these tips to jumpstart your sexual relationship! Create new sensations with the addition of props such as a feather, fur mitten or a metal chain. Read your partner an erotic bedtime story. The best encounters are those we don't plan on. Tell your partner you'd like to read them a story. Without letting them see the book (maybe slip a book cover over it) begin to delight their ears with a sensual story made perfect for two! Write a sexy letter describing everything you'd like to do to them. Sometimes it's difficult to actually speak out loud the things we enjoy about sex with our partner. Leave no doubts about your attraction and get them ready for some loving with a very in-depth description about what you enjoy doing to them! Study a new sexual practice such as tantric sex or the kama sutra together. Expand your sexual horizons and learn new ways to turn each other on. There are many, many sexual techniques you can learn or sexual practices to study. Get two books, one for each of you, on a particular subject relating to sex. Agree on a pre-determined time frame to be done with the books. On one agreed night, one partner will give a full body "report" on what they learned. On another night the other partner will do the same. Compare notes� The Art of Seduction Seduction is the art, and joy, of tempting your partner into a romantic, sensual liaison. It is less about the outcome of your liaison, and more about the game of seducing. When you begin a game of seduction you are inviting your partner to a completely sensual experience designed to heighten ALL of their senses. Your partner should be in a passive role, while you determine which sense to heighten and which zone to pleasure. Typically, a successful seduction is longer than your average lovemaking session, and can even last over a few days or weeks. It's important to remember that coupling doesn't always have to happen. Think of it as an extended foreplay session. If days of sensual innuendoes and mood setters can't get your partner in the mood, nothing will! Before beginning your seduction plan, you need to decide how long you want your seduction to last. Is there a special day coming up? Do you want to make some serious changes in your love play? If so, a week long seduction might be a better approach. Once you've decided your time limit, you'll want to look at how you want to begin capturing your partner's sensual attention. There are numerous ways to go about this. The most important thing to remember about this stage is that you should NOT couple! This is about getting their interest and heightening their senses for when you actually do couple. Here are a few ideas to get you started: leave an erotic love note on their pillow e-mail a fantasy you wish to enact with them give a sensual massage using your favorite massage oils have a finger food picnic play a lover's game kiss longer and more frequently find more opportunities to touch your partner make eye contact more frequently watch a semi-erotic move such as Henry & June have an old fashion "necking" session The Main Event Now that you've put all this effort into getting your partner ready, it's time to move onto the main event. Again, it's important to remember that the longer you draw out the seduction, the better it will be. There are various stages of arousal you enter into when engaging in love play. The shorter the experience, the lower the level of arousal you are able to access. The longer the experience, the higher the level of arousal you and your partner can enter into. Thus, if you can prolong the experience you will create a memory you will both treasure for quite a while. To make the most of this factor, you'll need to have things in place that will heighten all of your partner's senses. We're talking about a full assault on their senses. When you're done with them you'll leave them wondering how sex could have ever been otherwise. Here are some ideas to get you started: Sense of Sight: Care and attention should be placed on the location. If in your bedroom, candles lit, silky bedding and lots of pillows are a must. Arouse this sense further with lingerie. Sense of Smell: Aromatics can work for you or against you. Make sure you know which scents your partner enjoys. Get scented candles, incense or scented massage oil to help heighten this sense. Sense of Taste: This can be incorporated in two ways. One is through food with aphrodisiac qualities such as strawberries or oysters. The other is through edible lotions, chocolate syrups or whip cream. Sense of Hearing: Get creative and record yourself telling an erotic story and leave it playing in the background. Or, play music that fits the overall mood you are going for. If you have sensual movies you may want to have the sound playing in the background. Sense of Touch: One of the most erotic senses of all is the sense of touch. You will already be using this sense just by engaging the seduction. To heighten it you need to make sure every time they feel something against their skin it has an extra sensation added to it. You can do this with silky bedding, silky lingerie, or even with a massage with your favorite oils. You may also want to try a feather, something furry or a rose when you touch them. You can further heighten the senses by hindering one of them completely. A reduction causes the other senses to work more to make up for the loss. You can remove the sense of sight by using a blindfold. You can remove the sense of touch by using restraints. You need to make sure your partner would be comfortable with this type of love play before doing this though. For an additional benefit, when you execute your main event, you may want to try something a little different. For example, a tryst with role-playing may let your partner become more open and result in new levels of arousal. Or, a prolonged temptation before letting them reach their peak will certainly get results. Remember, this is your seduction. You can do whatever you KNOW will get your partner excited. The main point is to infuse some creative loving into your relationship. If you've lost a bit of that "new love attraction" this is an excellent way to get it back. Every few months, make sure you do something similar to this to keep the spark alive and create some fantastic memories to look back upon! The Secret Of Seduction Have you ever wondered how to go about seducing your partner? Well, get ready to give them the time of their life! We asked Lovingyou.com users how they could successfully be seduced, below are a few of their responses! To Seduce Him: She must talk to me with a sexy look. Slowly move her fingers to my lips and throughout my bodies. Then whisper, "Make love to me". She must call me up, and when I arrive she must start kissing me heavily and throw me on the bed and give me oral sex. Sexy lingerie! She must undress herself in front of me. She should play hard to get. To successfully seduce me, all my partner would need to do is be waiting for me, lead me to the bedroom and kiss me seductively while undressing me. I love it when she takes charge and "forces" me to make love to her. To Seduce Her: Well, he would need his lips and hands to properly seduce me. I love to be teased and to be taken to the point where I think I will surely explode, and I have to beg for the release I'm after. He would have to touch all around the spots I want to be touched, but not quite giving me what I want. One look from my fianc� and I am turned on, but if he slowly kisses my neck and licks the inside of my ear, I am his! Provide the ambiance; this could be from candles, to music and dinner. Then, after dinner, a slow dance or two, where we both use our hands while moving to the music. Then, afterwards it's on as he sits me in a chair in the middle of the room and blindfolds me. There would be only candles and rose petals surrounding the chair as he slowly undresses me, but never lets me touch him. After he is done, he spreads my legs and places straps on my ankles as he places my arms behind the chair and does the same. He slowly begins kissing my neck and then caresses my body slowly, then I feel something cold on me as he gets the ice and runs it down the middle of my chest, to my navel and down as he places it inside me, with his finger, and then tongue. This is a seduction. He would need to whisper nice hot words on my ear while rubbing my shoulders and neck. He would have to take his time and move slow. Just for on night touch every part of me and look into my eyes. I would need to look in his eyes and to feel his body tighten when he touches me. A man could successfully seduce me by assuming my answer is already YES, and staring into my eyes with a smile as if THIS is going to be the MOST fun he's had in decades. I like to give pleasure to someone who appreciates it and values it, and is willing to give me equally as much pleasure. Top 10 Places You're Making Love Feel like you and your partner are a little risky or adventurous? We've been polling our members for over 5 years on this subject. See how you compare to these places that couples like you said they frequently make love at. The most commonly citied locations where couples say they've been getting it on at are: 10. In the shower. 9. On the hood of a car. 8. On a pool table. 7. In a department store fitting room. 6. In the back of a truck outdoors. 5. In an elevator. 4. On a trampoline. 3. In a car in the woods. 2. At your office after hours. 1. In a hot tub. 30 Bedroom Boredom Busters 1. Share your deepest fantasies with each other. 2. Kiss with your eyes open.. 3. Extend your foreplay time... considerably. 4. Play truth or dare but keep your questions steered towards the topic at hand. 5. Make love by only candlelight. 6. Try ice... 7. Spend $100 on lingerie. 8. Take a bath or shower together. 9. Write a sensual love story about you and your partner. Leave it for them to read. 10. Use whipped cream... 11. Stay the night at a hotel with a hot tub. 12. Make it a point to touch every inch of your lover's body. 13. Learn more about aphrodisiacs. 14. Give your love a sensual massage. 15. Buy a few love making technique books and read them together. 16. Compliment your love on how they look and while making love. 17. Do a strip dance for them. 18. Spend a day teasing your partner. 19. Make love somewhere other than your home. 20. Experiment with different types of kisses. 21. When your love comes home, take control and make love to them right there. 22. Share a bottle of champagne while laying on blanket in your backyard looking at the stars. 23. Wash your partner. 24. Leave hidden sensually, teasing notes where they will find them. 25. Experiment with food during foreplay. 26. Kiss every part of their body. 27. Christen each room by making love in a new room every night. 28. Try one new thing in the bedroom a week. 29. Pick up your lover wearing only a trench coat. 30. Fix your hair, makeup, etc. Go to bed with only a pair of high heels on. Sexiest Body Parts For Men: 1. Eyes 2. Breasts 3. Neck 4. Stomach 5. Lips 6. Legs 7. Buttocks 8. Thighs 9. Mind 10. Tongue For Women: 1. Eyes 2. Mouth 3. Chest 4. Neck 5. Hands 6. Stomach 7. Buttocks 8. Back 9. Arms 10. Mind Ten Tips For Better Sex Make it unexpected. Nothing takes away the monotony in a relationship like the unexpected! The next time you're not doing anything, initiate a little sex play. Add ambiance to your love nest. The next time you plan on making love, light a few candles, spray a light scented fragrance and a put on some soft music. Ambiance can heighten just about any romantic situation. Wear comfortable, but sexy lingerie. In order to feel sexy, you need to look it AND be comfortable. If you are uncomfortable with any part of your body, find lingerie that hides it or greatly compliments another feature. Confidence is a great aphrodisiac and is easier to attain in the bedroom when you look great! Think about what your partner would like. To add a new level to your lovemaking, take your time pleasuring your partner. Add heightened interest by letting them know what you are doing. Speak romantically during the entire session as well. Women, concentrate on only what you want. Believe it or not, one of a man's biggest turn ons is a woman turning on herself. The next time you make love to your partner, only do things that pleasure you. Just like in the above tip, the key is in letting him know that is what you are doing. Make love in a new place. Add a bit of excitement and newness to your sex life by making love in a new place! Rent a hotel room, try a different room, make love in public... the possibilities are endless. Without speaking, take your partner and make love to them. Silence can be an exhilarating turn on. This idea is especially effective when you do this as soon as your partner comes home. Don't hold back your emotions. Be free to express yourself and your feelings when you make love. Voice how you're feeling and don't be too shy to do whatever you feel like doing. Try using something new like ice or toys. While sex is great without any enhancements, it can definitely be worthwhile to try a few new things. A few ideas range from blindfolds, ice, toys, movies, etc. Torment your partner with at least an hour of foreplay. Better yet, drag it out throughout the entire day. Suspense is a wonderful aphrodisiac and can greatly enhance your love making. Improve Your Sex Life Does your sex life lack luster and imagination? Need a way to give it a kick start? Try one of the five ideas below guaranteed to inspire passionate play tonight! Communicate You'd be surprised to learn how many couples don't talk about what they want, or don't want, in bed. This is one area that can always be improved. Talk about your fantasies together, play a game of truth or dare or take turns telling each other what you'd like to do to the other person. Read Together Inspiration comes in many forms, and many times it is from a great book. Get yours going by starting a library of sensual books. Make sure your collection has a variety of topics such as how-to topics, prose and idea books. Make A To Do Jar Separately write twenty things you'd like to try. Cut them out and fold them up. Put the forty ideas in a jar. Each week, individually take out a slip of paper. Don't show each other your slips of paper. Before the week is up, secretly plan to do the idea on the paper with your partner. When you're done with the papers, make up new ideas you'd like to try. Keep A Passion Diary Go to a bookstore, and pick a journal you both like. Decide on a secret keeping place for the journal that no one else will accidentally discover. Take turns writing your passionate thoughts and desires to each other. Try Something New Get a book of positions. Each month sit down with your partner, and pick a position of the month. Spend the month practicing it, and different variations of the position until you find a favorite. 15 Ways To Feel se X X X y 1. Wear lingerie that flatters you. 2. Wear silk boxers. 3. Do your makeup and hair. 4. Work out. 5. Wear sexy clothing. 6. Accept compliments regarding your looks and abilities. 7. Learn more about pleasing your partner. 8. Be the dominant one in your next love-making session. 9. Plan at least one sensual experience a week for your love. 10. Take a shower together. 11. If you're unsure about how to do something, become knowledgeable about it. Confidence is an incredible aphrodisiac. 12. Allow yourself to feel sexy. 13. Don't worry about your appearance. Everyone has flaws, just no one else cares about them as much as you do. 14. Love your partner without abandon. 15. Dance seductively with your partner. 10 Ways to Put Passion BACK in the Bedroom Are you ready to take your passion to a new level? These tips are sure to take just about any relationship from ho-hum to WOW! Some ideas may seem like basic romance� but let's be honest� when was the last time you ACTUALLY did them? That's right� the only way for this to work is to put the ideas into practice. Try all 10 and see what happens! Take a hot shower or bath together. When you are in the bath or shower, keep close physical contact. Wash each other and whisper in their ear the things you specifically love about making love to them. Share a romantic dinner in front of the fireplace. Nothing speaks romance like sharing a meal in front of the glow of a burning fire. It's even better if you're nude or barely covered with lace and silk. Make sure the dinner you share is conducive to a romantic setting. Food that can easily be eaten with the least amount of utensils is usually your best bet! Keep constant close physical contact when you are not at home. Keeping a sparked connection throughout the night is one of the most effective ways to keeping your partner passionate about you. A hand on their thigh, a whisper in their ear or a kiss on the neck are all great for reminding your partner what's waiting at home. A long, passionate kiss. How often do you really just express your desire in a kiss? When you first start dating it's usually one of the only ways to express your desire. Refresh your kissing skills by every so often catching your partner off-guard with a weak-in-the-knees passionate kiss. Leave a sexy note in the morning telling them to have nothing on, but the radio when you get home. They'll be thinking about it all day at work! Want to keep your partner's mind on you ALL day? Do this idea! You can even go a step further and tell them what's in store for them as well! Feed each other sensually suggestive finger foods. The best way to feed each other? Naked, of course! Set the tone for an incredible lovemaking experience with a little forethought and some of their favorite tender treats. Slow, sensual massage, complete with massage oil. If your hands slowly massaging every part of their body can't turn them on� well, you need more than these tips to jumpstart your sexual relationship! Create new sensations with the addition of props such as a feather, fur mitten or a metal chain. Read your partner an erotic bedtime story. The best encounters are those we don't plan on. Tell your partner you'd like to read them a story. Without letting them see the book (maybe slip a book cover over it) begin to delight their ears with a sensual story made perfect for two! Write a sexy letter describing everything you'd like to do to them. Sometimes it's difficult to actually speak out loud the things we enjoy about sex with our partner. Leave no doubts about your attraction and get them ready for some loving with a very in-depth description about what you enjoy doing to them! Study a new sexual practice such as tantric sex or the kama sutra together. Expand your sexual horizons and learn new ways to turn each other on. There are many, many sexual techniques you can learn or sexual practices to study. Get two books, one for each of you, on a particular subject relating to sex. Agree on a pre-determined time frame to be done with the books. On one agreed night, one partner will give a full body "report" on what they learned. On another night the other partner will do the same. Compare notes� Seduction Techniques One of the most important aspects of lovemaking is the seduction. Even if you have been active partners for a while, a good seduction goes a long way to heightening the enjoyment of lovemaking. The word seduction comes from an old Latin word, meaning to lead astray. Just the word in itself conjures up so many images of what a great seduction would include: Overt seduction: pouting lips and puppy dog eyes, soft kisses and touches around the neck, chest and groin area, whispering sweetly in his ear how much she wants him and how she knows he wants her too. Power seduction: the partner simply pulls her man away from whatever he is doing and starts to undress him, while pushing him towards the nearest comfortable area for lovemaking. This would be followed by her climbing on top and telling him what she is going to do to him. She would, of course, tolerate no arguments! Covert seduction: using false pretenses to lure her partner into a lovemaking situation. Ideas for this seduction include this one : Go into your backyard on a chilly fall day and begin raking the leaves in a pile. Summon your mate to hold the bag open and then tell him to close his eyes. Then start putting articles of clothing in the bag and lay down in the leaves after you are naked. When you are in a seductive position, tell him to open his eyes for a big surprise. Damsel in distress seduction: call your mate into the bedroom to help you with something urgent. Once he has "rescued" you, reward him handsomely for his brave gallantry. Classic seduction: the sensual massage. The first step in giving a seductive massage is to identify the pleasure points on your partner's body. For my wife, the back of the neck, lower back and feet are the main pleasure points. The pleasure points are, however, different for everybody and the time spent researching what gives your partner maximum pleasure, is time that will be well rewarded later on. A successful seduction entails one partner taking charge of the situation and using any means necessary to lure, not force, her man away from what he is doing, and into the bedroom. For the daring... This one is only for the daring. I did this one for my fiancé the other day, and he loved it so much. Ladies, put on one of your slinkiest dresses and dance for your man in candlelight. Put some saxophone music on, and dance seductively. This doesn't last for too long, though. Do what comes from your imagination. Pick Each Other Up... Again! It happened many years ago, but I can still remember it clearly! We needed something new in our relationship. We decided to go out dancing one night and pretend we did not know each other and HE had to make the first move to get me. It was perfect! All the seduction, the teasing... We played that game all night and when we got home, we were like a young couple again :) The Perfect Rainy Day Set a rainy day aside to be alone with your loved one, in a seductive dark room, and pamper them as they please. If you are a man, brush your woman's hair, and share secrets and feelings. Become best friends, it will bond two lovers together more than anyone could ever imagine. Give massages, back scratches, look at your partner and realize how beautiful they are... you will experience magic. Sexual Moments Mood Enhancers Sensual music. Choose music that is easy to listen to. The music should be an unnoticed but, appreciated addition, not a distraction. Share a glass of wine, champagne or other cocktail. Candlelight. Wear sexy lingerie. Watch a sexually toned movie. Or, order Playboy for the night. Read erotic stories to each other. Or, create your own! Tell each other your sexual fantasies. Read a how-to book together. Light incense. Take a shower together. Feed each other with your fingers. Kiss. Dance seductively together. Play a sensual board or card game. Blindfold your partner. Have fun painting each other's body with edible body paint. Women, walk around the house with a shirt on or no bra and a button front shirt with the top 5 buttons unbuttoned. Men, do the same with no pants on instead. Visit an adult cyberstore together online. View a sensual art book or website together. Touch your partner at every opportunity. Foreplay Essentials Foreplay is the equivalent to an appetizer of a passionate meal for two. If done right it can leave you hungry and eagerly anticipating the main course. But, if hurriedly approached and thrown together it can show your lack of skill, ability and overall appreciation of your partner. To help you avoid this we've compiled a list of 10 foreplay essentials that every couple should have. Now, the next time you're ready to cook up a hot night, you'll be prepared! Your Favorite Fruit Keep a small bowl of your favorite, sensual fruit like strawberries, oranges or grapes in your refrigerator. When the mood strikes, hand feed each other or eat it off of each other. Edible Lotions Depending on your tastes, try chocolate body paint or edible massage oils. Lingerie Sight plays a large part of intercourse. Tantalize your partner with a few sexy pieces of apparel. Sensual Music Everyone's taste differs. Experiment to see which music gets you in the mood! Sensual Stories/Poetry Love the sound of your partner's voice? Imagine them telling you a sensual story starring you... Silky Sheets/Blanket The feeling of something soft, silky and smooth can enhance your sense of touch like no other. Feather Foreplay can be fun or passionate... especially if you use this essential appropriately. Blindfold Sometimes the best way to heighten your senses is to render one useless. A blindfold can add a degree of intimacy and trust in your partner that other things cannot. Remember to talk to your partner about how they feel about using one before actually doing so. Romantic Game Your level of intimacy will determine what games to purchase. Games are an excellent and creative way to initiate a lovemaking session. Love Coupons This may not seem like a typical foreplay essential, but used correctly it can enhance all levels of your intimacy. Give yourself and your partner 5 to 10 blank "As You Wish" coupons. Explain that they can only be used during intimate moments. Every time your partner uses one, you'll get to find out something they enjoy. Get Your Partner In The Mood Getting your partner in the mood for sexual romance can sometimes be difficult, especially when your partner is going through a stressful or hectic time. But, that shouldn't stop you from being sexually intimate. Below you'll find ideas geared to helping you find creative ways to initiate lovemaking, no matter what the situation may be. 1. Present your partner with a coupon book good for various sexual acts like: one hour of pure pleasure from me, oral sex like you've never had before, one fantasy come true, etc. Use your imagination, as well as try to pick things you know you're partner would like. 2. Write a short erotic story about the two of you. The best way to go about this is to write down a fantasy in story format. Mail it to your partner or leave it somewhere they can find it. 3. Similar to the above, create "I'd like to do to you" cards. On about 10 - 15 blank index cards, write different sexual things you'd like to do to your partner. Hide them for them to find (make sure kids or other family members won't get them). 4. Call your partner and talk dirty to him. 5. Don't give your partner the opportunity to say no. If you're both comfortable with this idea, when they come home or visit you, grab them, blindfold them and tie there hands together with a silk scarf. Make sure while you're making love that you take your time to pleasure them and show your love. 6. Buy a few books on lovemaking or print out a few articles on lovemaking from the Internet. Leave them in places where you know you're partner will see that you're reading them. Make it clear to them you're going to try some of these tips out on them when you're ready. 7. Touch can be a powerful sexual arousal technique. During the day touch your partner whenever possible. Do it as if it's something you'd do everyday. When you're sitting next to each other, place your hand on their thigh. When you're standing caress their back or stomach. 8. Go somewhere just for the sake of making love. For example, a hotel, a secluded area, etc. 9. Leave a note for your partner telling them you plan on making sweet, passionate love to them tonight so be prepared. 10. Create a romantic interlude like this one: Silence Is Golden: A Sensual Romantic Evening. Finding Time To Make Love In a recent weekly poll question we asked, "How often do you think a typical couple should have sex?" The most given answer was 3 times a week, with everyday not very far behind. How does this compare to you and your significant other? If you feel you'd like to improve the amount of sensual time you spend with your partner here are a few ideas to help you! 1. Make it a point to go to bed at least an hour to a half-hour before you normally do. 2. If you're a morning person, try getting up an hour to half-hour earlier. 3. On days you have an hour or so lunch or mid-day break, meet each other at home or at a hotel for a fun quickie! 4. When you or your partner comes home, don't speak to them. Just grab their hand, drag them to the bedroom (or stay where you are) and make love. 5. Take your showers together. 6. Order out for dinner and make love before your food arrives. 7. While your children are taking a nap or engrossed watching a movie, steal your partner away and make love. 8. Hire a housekeeper to free up "needless" time. 9. Take a "sick" day from work and spend the day recovering together! 10. Whenever you're alone together... make love!
Who knew he was a ladies' man? Rylan Clark cavorts with near-naked female model in raunchy paint shoot pre X Factor fame By SARAH BULL PUBLISHED: 12:44 GMT, 5 November 2012 | UPDATED: 15:46 GMT, 5 November 2012 Comments (110) Share He's known for his outrageously camp performances on The X Factor. But before Rylan Clark became a household name through the ITV talent show, he experimented with his straight side in a series of raunchy shoots. New images have emerged of the singer from 2010, showing him cavorting with a near-naked female model and covered in luminous wet paint. Who knew he was a ladies' man? The X Factor's Rylan Clark is seen cuddling up to a pretty blonde model in an X-rated shoot from 2010 Looking more muscly than he does these days, Rylan takes on the role of a painter decorator in the shoot, wearing a pair of black-rimmed glasses as he smoulders for the camera. He is seen alongside a pretty blonde model, who wears little more than a bright pink thong as she cuddles up to her posing partner. And the photographer who took the snaps two years ago said of the shoot: 'Rylan maybe camp but he certainly set pulses racing that day. Smouldering: Rylan is seen wearing a pair of black-rimmed glasses and is covered in luminous paint to take on the role of a painter decorator in the raunchy shoot That's what you call a love seat! Rylan kisses the woman on the neck and she closes her eyes and enjoys it 'There would have been no undercoat needed - in fact it all came off and we're not talking about the paint. It was about as a steamy a photo session as you could image.' The photographer, who is now 23 years old, added: 'Rylan was really really great, he is such a great guy and a great model too, a complete natural when it came to setting up shots and posing. 'He was a real professional and sometimes a little shy but he took it all in his stride. I wish him all the best.' Feeling hungry? Rylan has a nibble on his fellow model's ear as the pair pose up for the shoot Three's a crowd: The pair are joined by another man who looks thrilled to be joining in the shoot Rylan has been causing controversy during his time on The X Factor, dividing opinion with his entertaining on-stage antics but less than powerful voice. On Sunday night's show, Rylan was voted through to the next stage of the contest when judge Tulisa took the vote to deadlock, sending Kye Sones home in the process. Kye's mentor Gary Barlow said of the decision: 'I always predicted that when you have an act like Rylan in this competition, good singers go home every week. I'm upset for Kye.' By the skin of his teeth: Rylan was voted through to the next week of The X Factor while Kye Sones was sent home VIDEO: Gary is outraged as Kye is sent home over Ryland Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2228074/Rylan-Clark-cavorts-near-naked-female-model-raunchy-paint-shoot-pre-X-Factor-fame.html#ixzz2BNZgB9MN Follow us: @MailOnline on Twitter | DailyMail on Facebook